It is fun to have a threesome. However, one thing that can probably come with the fun is certainly jealousy. Yes it is true that your partner can easily have jealousy in a threesome. This is because you will be having intimate relationship with a third person in front of him / her.

However, do you know the actual reasons of jealousy in a threesome?

In fact, your partner may probably think that you will not be interested in a threesome if you really love him / her. You partner will think that your interest in having intimate relationship with a third person will imply that you do not love him or her. As a result, he / she may have jealousy when you propose a threesome.

In this case you have to explain to your partner that seeking for fantasies in sex does not necessarily mean that you do not love your partner. This is very important. Although you are going to have a threesome, the one you actually love is your partner but not the third person you are going to have threesome with. Your partner will be a lot more relaxed if he or she can understand this thoroughly.

On the other hand, you partner may also have a feeling that you do not satisfy with his / her performance on the bed. And this makes you propose a threesome. Yet, performance on the bed and having a threesome are two different issues. Again, a threesome is your fantasy in sex. It does not really relate to the performance of your partner on the bed.

In fact, I will suggest you not to propose a threesome if you do not satisfy with your partner's performance. If you do not satisfy with his or her performance in sex, you should talk about it with your partner and try to find ways to solve the problem. Proposing a threesome will not help to solve the problem.

You have to tell your partner there is nothing wrong with the performance on the bed. A threesome is just a fantasy in sex and there is nothing to do with the performance on the bed.

Having a threesome is full of fun. However, the fun should be built on the trust of your partner. Both of you and your partner, as well as the third person, should enjoy the fantasy of threesome. Otherwise there is no point to engage in a threesome.